While contemplating this morning, I began to write down some of the polarities my mind is ruminating on. The outcome is paralysis, indecision, and low self-esteem. Modern living as a “healing” homo sapien is confusing.

I started coaching for ethical non-monogamy because a) I talked openly about it and, therefore, b) people started to ask me lots of questions about it. The same thing is happening with the realm of plant medicine. So I've officially added a new "coaching" option for my client work. If you have any interest in exploring plant medicine, you can book a free intro call with me to see if we would be a good fit to work together. Plant medicine has taught me a LOT about myself, my trauma, and what I have been hiding from my own awareness. It's a passion of mine to educate and support others as they chose to explore this avenue of healing. I bring my traumatic experiences in religion to the work I do and keep it in the front of my mind as I deal with folx from our kind of backgrounds as well as the type of development neglect many of us experienced in our religious family systems.

This Saturday I will be leading a couple sessions at the Shameless Sexuality conference. If you are suffering from restrictive, shamefilled messages about sexuality, this is a really great conference to attend. One of my sessions will be about "remedial consent", aka, what did we miss out on learning through these restrictive messages. Secondly, I'll be facilitating and participating in panel about "More Than Monogamy" aimed at exploring examples of how people choose to explore relationship dynamics and agreements that aren't strictly monogamous. To sign up, go to https://www.shamelesssexuality.org/.

An interview I did with Caleb in 2020 before he moved to Seattle.