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Understanding Dissociation: Why Overwhelm Can Feel Unreal and How to Ground Yourself

When I’m overwhelmed, there’s this voice or thought that says, “This isn’t real.” It’s unsettling, but it turns out it’s a common response. It’s a kind of dissociation—your mind’s way of creating distance when emotions or stress feel unbearable.

This mechanism, while protective, can be disorienting. Recognizing it as part of a pattern has been eye-opening for me. It doesn’t make the experience easier in the moment, but it reminds me I’m not broken—this is how the mind copes with intensity.

Through working on my trauma, I’ve started to feel like I’m accidentally becoming an expert in it. Healing brings a strange, quiet expertise—one I didn’t expect but have come to respect.

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Overcoming Emotional Overwhelm: Seeking Support and Finding Validation

Feeling frozen after a meaningful conversation, I found myself longing for support but unsure how to ask for it. This moment of disconnection led me to explore the complexity of seeking reassurance, the fear of rejection, and the relief that can come from being seen and validated—even when it feels impossible to articulate your needs.

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